I have always been a guy who believed that the ends, justified the means. I’ve read “The Prince” by Machiavelli, and “The Art of War” by Sun Tzu, both are pretty clear about getting what you want at all cost. But this past week I’ve started to question my belief. I started to touch on this in my “I Stand with Ralph” post, but ultimately decided it wasn’t the time to get into it. For example with this whole controversy, the end result I wanted was to retain Ralph for at least one more season. So the fact that it happened should make me happy, right? Well yes, but also no. And that is what bugs me.
Despite the outcome that I desired, I am not at all happy about how we arrived at this point. I don’t have unlimited access to Debbie Yow, Ralph Friedgen, the Athletic Department’ books, the Board of Regents, or whoever else may have had a hand in this decision. So ultimately I have to put the pieces together as an outsider looking in. As such, my gut feeling is that there was NEVER a chance for us to buy out the rest of Friedgen’s contract. I’m no financial expert, but I feel as though I have a pretty good finger on the pulse of what is going on in the state in terms of money. To throw out 4 Million Dollars to pay a guy not to coach is not going to go over well with a lot of people who are either being furloughed or downsized. Now you could counter that the money could have come from outside sources, but even then, when we are forced to take a bus to games we previously flew to, is it a good idea to spend any money, regardless of where it came from, on anything that isn’t essential? Plus, the average voter who reads the Washington Post or Baltimore Sun isn’t interested in where the money came from. They will just attach themselves to the point that a coach who is paid by the University is getting paid to not do a job.
Now before I go any further, I am not a Debbie Yow basher. I think whenever you are unhappy you need someone to blame, and the first target a lot of people take is Debbie. They may be right, they may be wrong, but I don’t know the first thing about running an Athletic Department, and until I do, I’m not going to lay blame. But in this particular case I think Debbie Yow does deserve some of the blame. If we could never buy Ralph out, or if it was going to be extremely hard to buy Ralph out, why did we ever go in that direction? Putting him on the hot seat is not going to help recruiting, and replacing him with James Franklin isn’t going to sell suites. The only thing that would help in both of those categories would be replacing Ralph with a big name, but how are you going to do that when you just spent money we don’t have on buying him out?
So what Debbie Yow should have done is realized that there was no chance to get rid of Friedgen. At that point she should have come out and said something like “I stand by Ralph Friedgen 100%, he is a our guy, and I have complete faith he can turn this thing around. Never once has Ralph quit on this program, and I find it hard to believe people are willing to quit on him now, but if you want a new coach, too bad. We will live and die with Ralph, he’s our man, and most importantly, he is a Terp.”. Obviously nothing along those lines were said, and if they were (and I missed it) the damage had already been done.
Instead though we are left wondering what was going to happen. Recruits were left wondering who was going to coach them next year, and the man who won us our first ACC Championship in quite some time was dragged through the mud. It did not have to go down like this, not when there was really only one option. So I guess the take home lesson from all of this for me is, it’s no longer safe just to wish for what you want, maybe you should take some time to wish for how you’re going to get it as well.
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